I have to start off by thanking ya'll for recommending PAI to everyone, and me by extension. Right now a super common valve cover gasket for the MP series (22777560) is super-unavailable, but PAI has plenty. I would likely have forgotten to check PAI if I didn't see it constantly mentioned around here. Thanks to you, I have a moderately satisfied service team. PAI is an awesome source I mentally filed under "Another aftermarket website that has iffy quality," but seeing entire overhaul kits recommended by ya'll, I've changed my tone.
Another source that has helped us out in a pinch is Automann. Unfortunately, Automann's catalog and ordering process is open only for registered distributors, which my dealer happens to be. I've used them a TON for clamps, sensors, and such that Volvo couldn't be bothered to keep in stock, with little to no returns. The only thing I don't recommend is the CAC boots for MP engines, they for some reason are bigger than needed and blow back off immediately in our experience. I'm not sure what it takes to become a distributor, all I know is we get a higher commission rate when using their parts haha.
I've only messed with Lippert a little bit because they rarely have what I needed, but I was told they were a good source for old, "obsolete" parts. They supposedly buy obsolete inventory from OEMS of all kinds, but I only have access to the Mack/Volvo store.
Lastly, I would try to avoid Weller if it was an option for you. We've had constant failures of transmissions and transmission control housings on top of difficult warranty processes; they typically don't like to pay labor either. The couple of differentials I've seen haven't returned, but the amount of failures we've seen have made our service department no longer recommend.
Sorry if this doesn't exactly fit the forum, but I wanted to show my appreciation by also recommending a couple of other sources, even if they focus on newer trucks. THIS IS NOT AN ADVERTISEMENT OR ATTEMPT TO EARN YOUR BUSINESS!! If you ask for my help, I'll gladly do so, but I'm not here to benefit off the forums. I get my money from Volvo haha.