Had the same problem with my heavy spec 2013 505 MP8. has Meritor 46's with 4-way lockers. They did shocks, ride height blah, blah blah.....I said seems only under load and at Higher speeds etc. I suspected combustion gas getting into fuel system when hot and under load like I use to see on 60 series Detroit's (basically same injector/cup setup). Betcha every time you bring it to dealer you have a hard time proving that the "Vibration" is happening???? Mine turned out to feel like a vibration only to find out it was more of a studder. I was lucky 1 nightshift Tech agreed with me. Days would fluff me off like you. It got worse and worse to the point where it would finally "vibrate" when the dealer had there hands on it. After all the wasted time on drive train turned out to be Injector cups and a fretted(cracked) injector tip pushing combustion gases into the fuel system. At 20,000kms they did 6 cups and all 6 injectors. No more "Vibration". May not be the same issue as yours but mine took a while before they saw the bubbles in the fuel system sight glass test kit. Stick to your guns if you think this sounds familiar. If I hadn't I would have been like you. It took Mack almost a week to come up with the 6 injectors to change over because at the time they were replacing so many of them they had a hard time stocking them. I also adjusted my ride height back to where it was when it was delivered.(they lowered it to the point of almost covering the entire bag stool at ride height) It made no difference in my "Vibration" Keep in mind...If its a cracked tip or combustion getting past the injector and cup they are more common to happen under load and hot. Is this issue the same when you are running empty? My issue had to be hot, under load, and at rpm's that demanded the most fuel and produced the highest in cylinder temps. I see you mentioned when you depressed the clutch the vibration disappeared. This could also be you breaking the high torque load on the engine. Mine wouldn't vibrate unless it was under load. Bobtail it wouldn't produce this issue. Good luck!